As 77 million baby boomers begin turning fifty, Letty Cottin Pogrebin, a respected social critic and award-winning writer, tells the truth about that uncharted period when time speeds up and the body slows down - when you are no longer young but far from old, and you refuse to believe that you are over the hill. Pogrebin's journey out of her forties and into her fifties becomes a user-friendly map of this challenging terrain as she demystifies the fears most people can't face and celebrates the possibilities most people can't see. Every woman who is facing fifty or has already moved past it will be grateful for this warm, witty exploration of the indignities and epiphanies of midlife, large and small. Suddenly waking up in the middle of the night, for instance, with a non-negotiable need to go to the bathroom. Immediately. Having to let the waistband out on every skirt you own. Discovering one day that you can no longer read the phone book. Finally figuring out what you want to be when you grow up. Realizing that not everyone you love will be here forever and neither will you. Cherishing the present as never before.
I found this to be the best book of its type that I have read. It is upbeat, practical and written in a pleasant to read style. It is helpful without sugarcoating or depressing.
I laughed till I cried
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 25 years ago
This book was like talking with a close friend. I thank Letty for being honest, sensitive and very funny. If you are 50 it's a must read...I bought 6 copies to give to friends!
Funny, poignant, reassuring--all at the same time!
Published by Thriftbooks.com User , 28 years ago
A must-read for those 49 1/2 and--sorry--older. My sister (55) recommended it to me (52) after I noticed that some men I had dated were starting to die in their 50's. I landed on Pogrebin's reassuring comment that death isn't a factor of aging but a factor of life with relief and recognition. She approaches the good, the bad, and the ugly (and what her grownup daughters label even as disgusting) with humor and the sense of sisterhood and community that are her hallmark.
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